“Hey Ria, wanna go for a date dear? Sorry Amit…. Actually Rohit is my date…what about tomorrow sweet heart?”
These are GEN Y…Generation next… for them love is nothing but spending time with more & more people of opposite sex…( obviously there are exceptions)…. These is becoming a craze… Heart is nothing but a organ for them… Passions… Relationship…commitments… these words just don’t exist in their dictionary…. Today most of the guys are looking for so called sexy(yaa..your eye is perfectly ok..& you are reading the right word) girls when it comes to dating…. Who can give them some so called pleasure… they don’t look for them who can give them support.. who’ll be there with them at any probs…& girls are looking for rich & richer guys…yah…love can’t be platonic only…&…itz true that love will die…if there is no money….but these are all…secondary….where is the big word LOVE??? … often I’m seeing my friends getting involved into relationships with different girls or guyz… I’ve seen persons who are interested in sex only without any responsibilities….or commitments….
Yaa… I’m also included in GEN Y… &… I can’t say that I’m an exception or anything like that…. I now what these things are…. &..we call all these as “HAPPENING THINGS”… but how happening we are actually?... sometimes our parents can’t able to understand what al these ENTERTAINMENT is all about…..
THIS IS THE QUESTION….ARE WE REALLY HAPPY??????????
Trust me…..we’re not…we just pretend to be happy…. Everywhere we face competition….. Even in case of love……this is the second point of this article…LOVE………..
Sometimes we ourselves failed to realize when we fall in love with someone… &..that is also someone whom you never thought you can fall in love with that person… he/ she could be a friend… when for some reason you are feeling down…or emotionally you are devastated …he/ she stood beside you…. You that time need a friend.. & shoulder to cry on & that person was there…. Still we think this is nothing….. that person is not good.. or judge them by the number of affairs of that person…. But LOVE FOLLOWS NO RULES……..
So, may be… you are yet not serious about it… just like me…. But while reading this article… I request you to press the search button of your heart & find that person… who is the ultimate one you are searching for….. who stands beside you without any conditions….. Selflessly….. search that person in your mind,,,,,, coz, may be that person is there in any disguise which you can’t identify……..
And do it fast….. coz, in my life, when I pressed that search button.. the page was expired….. he wasn’t there for me… &…today he is the star in someone else’s sky…not in my sky… if I pressed that search button li’l earlier & expressed him my mind… he could be mine… …& trust me…this is the toughest part… we GEN Y…. can say anything, can confide anything to our near & dear one, but can’t able to express a simple thing…
We are happy yet unhappy……
We show off our affairs (which are not serious)….but hide our broken heart & real love
Sometimes itz so painful…. Much more painful than even diseases….
REQUEST:-
(****this is an imaginary article…. May be…you don’t agree with the contents of this article…. Don’t take these comments personally……. ****)
These are GEN Y…Generation next… for them love is nothing but spending time with more & more people of opposite sex…( obviously there are exceptions)…. These is becoming a craze… Heart is nothing but a organ for them… Passions… Relationship…commitments… these words just don’t exist in their dictionary…. Today most of the guys are looking for so called sexy(yaa..your eye is perfectly ok..& you are reading the right word) girls when it comes to dating…. Who can give them some so called pleasure… they don’t look for them who can give them support.. who’ll be there with them at any probs…& girls are looking for rich & richer guys…yah…love can’t be platonic only…&…itz true that love will die…if there is no money….but these are all…secondary….where is the big word LOVE??? … often I’m seeing my friends getting involved into relationships with different girls or guyz… I’ve seen persons who are interested in sex only without any responsibilities….or commitments….
Yaa… I’m also included in GEN Y… &… I can’t say that I’m an exception or anything like that…. I now what these things are…. &..we call all these as “HAPPENING THINGS”… but how happening we are actually?... sometimes our parents can’t able to understand what al these ENTERTAINMENT is all about…..
THIS IS THE QUESTION….ARE WE REALLY HAPPY??????????
Trust me…..we’re not…we just pretend to be happy…. Everywhere we face competition….. Even in case of love……this is the second point of this article…LOVE………..
Sometimes we ourselves failed to realize when we fall in love with someone… &..that is also someone whom you never thought you can fall in love with that person… he/ she could be a friend… when for some reason you are feeling down…or emotionally you are devastated …he/ she stood beside you…. You that time need a friend.. & shoulder to cry on & that person was there…. Still we think this is nothing….. that person is not good.. or judge them by the number of affairs of that person…. But LOVE FOLLOWS NO RULES……..
“You can never decide in love…………..
It just happens to you………………”
It just happens to you………………”
So, may be… you are yet not serious about it… just like me…. But while reading this article… I request you to press the search button of your heart & find that person… who is the ultimate one you are searching for….. who stands beside you without any conditions….. Selflessly….. search that person in your mind,,,,,, coz, may be that person is there in any disguise which you can’t identify……..
And do it fast….. coz, in my life, when I pressed that search button.. the page was expired….. he wasn’t there for me… &…today he is the star in someone else’s sky…not in my sky… if I pressed that search button li’l earlier & expressed him my mind… he could be mine… …& trust me…this is the toughest part… we GEN Y…. can say anything, can confide anything to our near & dear one, but can’t able to express a simple thing…
We are happy yet unhappy……
We show off our affairs (which are not serious)….but hide our broken heart & real love
Sometimes itz so painful…. Much more painful than even diseases….
REQUEST:-
(****this is an imaginary article…. May be…you don’t agree with the contents of this article…. Don’t take these comments personally……. ****)
3 comments:
well... this's honestly i'm gonna rate this as the most bold and yet true post of this blog so far. Anyone who doesnt wake up after reading this, i guess, doesn't have a heart at all !! keep writing chumki, i luv ur posts !
well... no point in anything whatsover. until one 'self-realizes', no post is gonna help.
personally, i feel that ppl are not at all matured to work out with relationships.
relationship is not like hrittik and amisha in kaho na pyaar hai and neither like julia in pretty woman.
its not just "loving" its the whole responsibility, trust adjustments, compromise and... (whatever)
Basically, it is after the age of twentyy-eight (generally) that we know the meanin of relationship.
Its not how long you can stay hungry for me, rather it is how well u understand that i am really busy and so u have ur food.
Its not how much u can spend for me, bt hw useful is what u spend on me.
Love someone with whom you can talk. Coz, all other qualities will be useless after the age of forty-five.
I just have to say that what ever you written is the got damn truth which the youth of this so called Gen Y knows but dont wanna accept.
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