Read Vivek’s post on this topic…so decided to say something on this…coz…I thought only comments were not enough…. So this post….
EXPECTATION – a big word… we expect from ourselves, from our friends, from our parents, from loved one…(not to forget about politicians too…we expect from them also after all)… We can never realise, from where these expectations come from… may be , from that very moment when a child born… born with lots of happiness & EXPECTATIONS… sometimes it becomes unbearable coz…sometimes our expectations collided with our parents’…& others… Then comes our friends… we should not forget that everyone is an individual… everyone thinks in a different way… sometimes we expect our friends to do something, but they don’t & vice versa… & problem starts…sometimes we adjust…bcoz no one wants to loose a friend…but…the crack on the glass exists forever…& our loved one…yaa…if we love someone…why do we want to change li’l things in them…sometimes they don’t like something about us… problem starts…& ends in a break off… we expect that he’ll give us the 1st priority… but we forgot he has his family…& friends… so, we can’t expect 100% priority all the time…
I can say that, in my house , my parents what my attention.. yaa they want… & I know that they are my 1st priority… though sometimes it creates pressure on me… but, again they expect these from me… & so.. now a dayz I stopped expecting from anyone,,, why should I expect???... Whenever expectations become high…it started hurting…… may be, some people will call you by different names… just to pinch you… but thatz better than getting hurt… & when our parents, friends & loved one hurt us… unintentionally…but it breaks our heart… as we know…an unknown person can’t hurt us… coz..we have no expectations from them…Still…we’ll continue expecting… may be, thtz life, thatz hope, thatz relationship..thatz love……..
1 comment:
its a natural instinct for us to expect, but as u said nd as all wise men have said, it'd be best if u go on doing ur job without any expectations. but leave alone urself, there's others' expectations to fullfill. u can suppress urself, bt u cant control others. so newayz, u'll get into the trap once u'r in the society, once ur grown up enuf to understand the ppl around u.
as a baby, u dont have the 'intelligence' to understand the psyche of others and hence u can lead a life of ur own. alas! now u not only live ur own life but simultaneously be a hissa(part) of others too. u'r deep into the trap my dear, u cant get out. the best way out is that of a sanyasin... but we dont have the guts !
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